Given To: The Gift of Adoption
is a heartfelt true story that explores a question deeply relevant to anyone touched by adoption. Inspired by a tender moment on a family beach vacation, the story begins when a young adopted granddaughter asks her grandmother, “Why was I given away when I was born?”
The grandmother’s gentle and powerful response — “You were never given away, you were given TO” — becomes the heart of this beautifully illustrated book.
With soft watercolor imagery chosen to evoke comfort and calm, each page pairs tender artwork with thoughtful language, offering a soothing exploration of identity, love, and belonging.
Created by a speech pathologist passionate about language and literacy, this book provides a safe space for families and children to navigate complex emotions with grace.
Given To is ideal for families, schools, libraries, and adoption agencies, offering both a meaningful message and a valuable resource for early emotional understanding.
What People Are Saying
“Wow! This is a tool you must add to your tool box! This story has a beautiful message to share with everyone, especially those tied to adoption. Get your tissue ready if it’s your first read!”
— Alexa, adoptive mother of 2
“Why were we born or placed into the families we have? This book explores that question and more, inviting you to choose love and see yourself as a gift in the lives of others.”
— Nicky, adoptive mom
"A child is far too precious of a gift to be thought of as 'given away.' This beautiful book captures the truth that, as a birthmother, I did not give my son away...I gave him to a family who could give him all the love and care he deserved."
— Kimberly, birth mother
About the Author
Donna Trappey
Donnie, as she is lovingly known by her grandchildren, is a retired speech pathologist with decades of experience working in both public and private school systems. Her professional career was devoted to supporting students with special needs, and she spent many years advocating for inclusive education and helping children find their voices - both literally and figuratively.
In addition to her work in special education, Donnie is a proud mother to seven children and their amazing spouses, and a grandmother to 22… at last count. Some are biological, some adopted—each one deeply cherished and wonderfully unique.
She lives in New Iberia, Louisiana, with her husband, George. Of all the roles she’s held, she believes the greatest gift in her life has been her family.
About the Illustrator
Brad Budge
Brad Budge is a professional artist born and raised in Mandeville, Louisiana, where he continues to live and work today. With a strong foundation in fine arts and years of hands-on experience, Brad has developed a unique style that blends warmth, character, and story-driven detail—making his work especially well-suited for children's books and family-centered projects.
Working full-time from his studio in Mandeville, Brad brings imagination to life through vibrant illustrations that reflect both technical skill and a deep appreciation for storytelling. His art is inspired by everyday moments, family life, and the world around him, and his illustrations aim to connect emotionally with viewers of all ages.
When he's not creating in the studio, Brad enjoys spending quality time with his wife and their three children. His family life plays a central role in his creative process, grounding his work in love, humor, and heart.
To explore more of Brad’s work, visit www.bradbudgeart.com
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Given To: The Gift of Adoption is a touching and beautifully illustrated children's book inspired by a real conversation between a grandmother and her adopted granddaughter during a family beach vacation. This true story offers a powerful and reassuring answer: “You were never given away—you were given TO.”
With soft watercolor illustrations that create a sense of calm and comfort, this book pairs tender imagery with thoughtful, age-appropriate language to help children understand the deep love and intention behind adoption.
Written by a retired speech pathologist with a lifelong passion for language and literacy, Given To is designed to support emotional understanding and open dialogue within families.
Whether you're reading it at home, in a classroom, or as part of adoption counseling, this book offers a safe, nurturing way to explore themes of identity, belonging, and unconditional love.
Perfect for families, schools, libraries, and adoption professionals, Given To is more than a story—it’s a gift of understanding for anyone whose life has been touched by adoption.